Are you...
...on IC?
(ME-tan, Tue 27 Oct 2009, 19:15, 6 replies)

Yes
I am (with 2 profiles, one Dom, one Sub, since they don't have a Switch category any more). FWIW you meet a better class of kinkster on sites like this and on vanilla sites like POF than sites like IC and Collarme.
(Rsoles, Tue 27 Oct 2009, 21:55, closed)

Kinksters
From what I have discovered all sites have few actual players and lots of wannabes who never leave the keyboard regardless of whether the site is vanilla or not. You certainly do find a better class of kinkster at munches and clubs and i highly recommend them to everyone with the inclination :)
(ME-tan, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 0:44, closed)

Yep
and once you get known and the invites to private parties start coming in, you'll never bother using the Interwebs again, you'll be fully booked.
(Rsoles, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 1:58, closed)

what is
IC?
(TheManWithThePlan cussed your mum on, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 9:35, closed)

yeah
what is the IC? all us wannabe weirdo's wanna know.
(scotsbloke, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 14:49, closed)

A website
called Informed Consent, where lots of fat birds wrestle with the question of whether Pro-Dommes are actually prostitutes and whether swastikas should be allowed in fetish clubs.

www.informedconsent.co.uk

Actually, it's a pretty good place to start if you are indeed a wannabe weirdo, not too cliquey really. You'll certainly find out what's on near you.
(Rsoles, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 15:49, closed)