I think
this is quite often a sign of abuse.

I may be wrong, but a girl in our class was called 'fanny feeler' because thats what she would do when she was in class. I was once told this was a classic tell tale sign.

I later found out she has since settled down with a man 30 yrs older than her, and has had kids.

Read into that as you like.
(Dan dan dan They tik urh jerbs!!!, Wed 17 Aug 2011, 13:33, 1 reply)

It reads a bit like someone got married and had kids...

( lucosade is counting down the minutes until, Wed 17 Aug 2011, 14:55, closed)

Maybe the class he mentions was only a couple of years ago.

(Falstaff's Spiritual Successor, Wed 17 Aug 2011, 15:12, closed)

The girl in question dated a 40-50 yr old when she was 18
and had kids with him by the time she was 19.

Is this not odd to anyone?

is your name Michael Douglas?
(Dan dan dan They tik urh jerbs!!!, Wed 17 Aug 2011, 15:44, closed)

Nope.
That's just how she rolls.

The sign of abuse is usually asking other people / adults to do it for them. Wanking is completely normal at any age, though you would expect parents / teachers to knock public displays on the head pretty swiftly. O_o.
( Throat And Ice Pie I see dem tatties dere., Wed 17 Aug 2011, 18:49, closed)