Jugular,
hmmm, i can see how make that assumption.

however, i have seen ALL the bad sides too, which un reflection werent so bad, just a bit scary. mainly because id never been in that situation before. Yes, i have all the puberty thing to come, but in the fiorst 4 nearly 5 yrsI have dreaded what was coming, thinking it would be horrible, what it turned out to be was a massive adventure (still ongoing)

ive been up at 2am bottle feeding, washin him in the bath when his nappy exploded filling his trousers, slept at his bedised for 48 hrs at hospital when he was sick, spent every saturday since september in the freezing cold watching him run around a football pitch in training.

to be honest even though the above were 'bad times' they truly werent. I was just scared, and on reflection wuoldnt change thast time with my son for the world.

Any parent will understand that. Even the bad times are good times. Ive never had that experience with anythin else in my life.
(Dan dan dan They tik urh jerbs!!!, Thu 24 Apr 2008, 13:19, Reply)