capitulation!
yeah, the "I'll call you" thing is crap. There's even an episode of Friends about it.

Someone saying they'll call and then not pisses me right off personally (if it's a mate/work thing etc.) but then unpunctuality makes me want to commit murder too.

the thinking she should fancy him thing is where you should come and in and make sure she isn't just seeing him for that reason. You don't need to make her think what you do, but make sure she knows what she thinks and acts on it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 Jan 2011, 16:09, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

it can't be difficult to think
"how would i want this girl/guy to treat me" and then put that into action.

i mean - nobody would ask themselves that question and come up with the answer: "pretend to be keen in order to get laid, make all the moves on me, have sex with me, then say they'd call me when they had no intention of ever calling again", ffs!

if you think i haven't told her that, repeatedly and vehemently, most often sloshing vodka over her, you don't know me as well as i thought!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 17 Jan 2011, 16:24, Reply)

now we get to the crux:
most people are stupid and/or cunts.

you need to find a better way to drum it into her head.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 Jan 2011, 16:30, Reply)

well yeah
i'm certainly a lot more guarded than i used to be as a consequence of some stupid AND cuntish behaviour!

more vodka, vipros. more vodka.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 17 Jan 2011, 16:42, Reply)

good for you ;-)
a girl after my own heart. I love vodka.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 Jan 2011, 16:45, Reply)