^ This
If you want to leave her, leave her. There's no sense in fucking over the chance for a future relationship with your daughter though. It's hard, but try and stay as calm as possible.
(BelladonnaAnodyne Melissa's gonna wet herself, I swear..., Sun 6 Mar 2011, 10:25, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

But take some advice from people more qualified than this website.
A friend of mine was in an relationship with someone, and they had a kid together, that was sufficient for her to be able to claim half-the-house.

With her share of the equity from a house she'd never paid a penny towards, she went and got a big telly and then went on holiday as having the cash in her account meant she'd not get any benefits.

As far as I know, she is still single, but has added to her clan with two further kids, both by different fathers.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sun 6 Mar 2011, 10:29, Reply)