Some friends of ours asked that everyone donate to their honeymoon fund instead of buying gifts
They set up a website where people could make donations and leave messages, then spunked it all on flights to America. Family will probably want to give you stuff that lasts but everyone else should be amenable.

The only problem is that it means anyone visiting the webiste can see how much each person has donated, and therefore how much they love you. If you're really lucky the first person will gift you an outlandish amount, and everyone else will think that's where the bar has been set. Or a bidding war will emerge.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Mon 7 Mar 2011, 13:00, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

as said before
I'd rather have stuff than honeymoon money.

We are definitely going to give a list of things to family, and then I'm thinking probably open up to vouchers or money to the rest. or art to those who can be trusted.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Mar 2011, 13:02, Reply)

Fair play, my bad
I suggest you create a list at Ann Summers for her and a list at Game for you. Win-win.
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Mon 7 Mar 2011, 13:12, Reply)

her you
( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 7 Mar 2011, 13:13, Reply)