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(, Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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based on the fact your mum can cook sauerkraut. And the orange of St Pats day is just bizarre
(, Mon 21 Mar 2011, 23:59, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)
Over here that counts for a lot, actually. Go to South Boston and tell them they're not Irish. It will not be pretty.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:02, Reply)
that is pretty ridiculous especially for a nation obsessed with being American
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:03, Reply)
Not all of us are flag waving zealots- in fact, the people flying American flags from their houses are a very small minority. Most of the rest of us just sigh and roll our eyes most of the time.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:12, Reply)
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:14, Reply)
Over here, to be American means to be a legal citizen of the US, just as one would expect. But we're also considered to be the world's melting pot, with people coming from everywhere to become Americans. So people generally give a nod to their ancestry by calling themselves African American, Irish American, Mexican American, German American, Italian American and so on. Usually this is done by people whose families have strong traditions around their ancestral origins.
If you go to NYC, for instance, you'll find that the people in Little Italy may have a New Yawk accent but refer to themselves as Italian. As mentioned elsewhere, the people in south Boston take extreme pride in their Irish ancestry. I would say that the vast majority over here have a pretty good idea of where their ancestors came from, and identify somewhat with that group.
So for me, saying that I'm German/Irish means that I have ancestors who came relatively recently from those countries. It's a verbal shorthand of sorts. No, I have never been to, much less lived in, either country- I'm an American. But I acknowledge that some of my family's influences came from there, just as my friend Dan Ribuffo's family have a lot of Italian traditions despite having been generations removed from Europe.
It's not a longing for those places, it's a nod toward what influences run in our families.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:27, Reply)
now I have a bit more context. It's differentiating between "I'm Irish" meaning I'm from Ireland and I'm obviously American, and not claiming otherwise, but with Irish roots.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 2:04, Reply)
Was the fact that for years, Irish bars would pass around the collecting tin for 'the struggle' and then they all bleated like they were the first people in the world to experience terrorism after 9/11.
If these people hadn't directly funded terror, I might have a small bit of sympathy.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:05, Reply)
but Tipperary Hill in Syracuse would often have people wearing orange on the 17th, just not many of them. But because they were expressing their respect for their Irish ancestry, it was accepted without problems.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:10, Reply)
Or without any understanding of what it represents in current times?
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:15, Reply)
and I think the Orange Lodge largely celebrate the fact that the English/Scottish protestants defeated the Catholics in Ireland.
Someone Irish might have to correct me here.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:16, Reply)
After William of Orange. The Dutch were very Protestant.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:21, Reply)
There are none in Eire are there?
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:24, Reply)
you don't get any in the Republic. Anybody wearing orange on St Patricks is really weirdly deficient in any knowledge of Irish history as opposed to Northern Irish
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:25, Reply)
I do have some ancestors who came from England, Scotland and Wales, but that was about eight generations or more back. My maternal grandmother has traced her ancestry back to the Mayflower.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:29, Reply)
You could go back to Adam and Eve and then lay claim to global ancestry.
There has got to be more to it than being proud of your ancestry, as this strange trait seems to be linked mostly with Americans. Whilst I agree your country is a melting post of different backgrounds, the same could be said of any continent, things are pretty diverse in Britain.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:36, Reply)
but your country has been around a lot longer than this one has.
Consider: when people immigrate, it tends to be human nature to congregate with others from your homeland, right? So you have areas of your towns that have a higher percentage of Polish or Pakistanis than people whose great ancestors all lived in that area. I would guess that if you asked people who were second or third generation from Pakistan, they'd probably identify in some way with being of Pakistani origin.
Now look at America. The Europeans pretty much laid the Native Americans to waste and started filling up the country. People poured into here over the past couple hundred years, and tended to keep to their own. Ethnic groups tend to not mix very much, as I'm sure you've noticed. Over here they considered themselves as different from the people who had already been here for a few generations, descended from Western Europe and Britain, so they started identifying themselves by their ancestral origins. I would say that it's a trait that's about as old as this country itself. For a fact it's the way of most people over here.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:47, Reply)
But Britain would fit within the landmass of California, by some margin, so it isn't a fair comparison.
We are also an island race.
Fair enough if we agree that American was founded in 1776? But surely that is long enough to establish your own identity?
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 1:00, Reply)
And that's as a cultural melting pot. *laugh*
Seriously, though, there are parts of this country that show pretty strong influences by various ethnic groups. Another example is the northern Midwest- Minnesota and the Dakotas. Ever seen the movie "Fargo"? Did you note their rather Norwegian-sounding accents? They really do talk like that there. And lutefisk is actually pretty common out there as well. Garrison Keillor exaggerates it a bit at times, but not by that much.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 1:09, Reply)
There are some lodges in forrin parts like Donegal (so still Ulster). They have a wee walk around with a band on the twelfth and nobody really minds. Pretty much how it goes in my parents' neck of the woods too.
Orange on St. Patrick's day is insane though.
Edit: Rossnowlagh, I think.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 10:45, Reply)
Like when me and my dad were watching an orange parade because it was en route to my nana's and my dad didn't want me to dislike anyone when I was growing up. But I was dressed head-to-foot in green.
We didn't do it on purpose, but we were on the Catholic leg of the journey and there was I in green. It did not go down well.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:04, Reply)
State school, prayers 4 times a day, mass on Fridays, school pilgrimages to Wales...
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:10, Reply)
Although I am probably of a generation where the teaching qualification were less important than someones commitment to the church.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:13, Reply)
I don't get many of the aspects of Catholicism.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:28, Reply)
But then I've of the opinion that no parent has any right to choose a childs religion.
Having had catholisim forced on me as a child, and with me being an overly committed atheist, I'm annoyed that I was forced to waste Sunday mornings in mass.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:38, Reply)
but after that they said it was up to me, because they'd stopped going to church and I went with my nana. I stopped when I was 10/11.
I asked why they took it that far when they weren't religious themselves and my mum said "Just in case..." like it was insurance for my soul!
My dad used to whisper in my ear about the Vatican playing the stockmarket with what we'd just put in the collection plate.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:43, Reply)
I was put through both primary and secondary education and was confirmed.
Any idea how I get excommunicated?
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:47, Reply)
Nana goes but she's dead cool and knows that half of the shit the Pope spouts about condoms and 'oh I didn't know there were paedos' and the homophobia is balls.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:50, Reply)
They don't even get any comfort from their belief, it's more of a social club to them (I think).
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 1:01, Reply)
Because of my family and my education and stuff.
But I didn't go and shout obscenities at the Lodge like the other kids round my way.
I don't like how they seem to be celebrating negative things and being all antagonistic, but each sees his own side and no other. My dad will play the Sash on harmonica for my cousin's father-in-law when he visits, as a joke. Liverpool's not as sectarian as it was.
(, Tue 22 Mar 2011, 0:09, Reply)
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