it depends on the circumstances
if he told you he was too tired then fine, but if he just said no, without a reason, and you started anyway without first getting permission then you could be in trouble.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:42, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

But then
you're killing the surprise! (I'm just joking there)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:45, Reply)

:-)
I'd be happy enough, but there are situations where that isn't always the case.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:47, Reply)

I know
I think I got it right every time, as I've got no complains!

To be honest, sometimes I've been told no because we were friends and the guy didn't want to break the friendship, but after a bit of talking and touching he'd change his mind, and the frienships are still there!
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

rape doesn't usually involve much in the way of talking
edit: actually, it might, I've never been on either end of a rape
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:54, Reply)

'either end' made me laugh
I'm a bit ashamed.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:58, Reply)

I think you're right
I don't know much about it either.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:00, Reply)