it's not a black and white issue
he may genuinely not want to do it, but genuinely not want to lose his wife by putting his foot down.

She could be blindly or otherwise ignoring his desire not to go and not be willing to make a compromise.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 16:39, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

it's all circumstantial
we don't know them, there's a million ifs we could ask

but when it comes down to it, and people are fed up, they know when enough is enough
and if he absolutely did not want to go he would not go
( Lisette von Falcon, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 16:44, Reply)

She might be promising him anal if he goes.

(Bazongaloid, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 16:45, Reply)

and who could say no to that?

( Lisette von Falcon, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 16:46, Reply)

Exactly Kristine, Exactly.

(Bazongaloid, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 16:48, Reply)