I think the main thing is, berk
You know him. We don't. Do you think you are just being paranoid? If there is something going on there, you would have already had suspicions. Honestly, go with your gut instinct.

In the very early days of being with mr b3th, I found something unsavoury on his computer, and I completely freaked out. It turned out it was a worm that nearly fried his PC. My point is, give him the benefit of the doubt. I think he deserves that much.
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:09, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

It just plays on pre-existing insecurities really
the shy fat ugly chick I've always been still can't believe that this guy is interested in me, or that I'm interesting enough or good enough in bed to keep him interested...so why wouldn't he look elsewhere?
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:16, Reply)

Cos he's got YOU.
Have you seen the popular page?
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:16, Reply)

No...?
what's on the popular page?
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:22, Reply)

A wonderful gonz post that may ring a bell or two.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:28, Reply)

Ahahahaha
oh, bless him.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:34, Reply)

I can relate to this.
Just fight it.
( girlinthehole, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:18, Reply)

Well, obviously, I don't know you
but from your facebook profile I can tell you that you are neither fat nor ugly. Shy is something to work on by yourself. Personally, I can recommend having someone want to sleep with you.
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:19, Reply)

I'm not now, so much
but I used to be extremely - ahem - plain. And chubby.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:22, Reply)

Yeah, me too.
Losing a bit opf weight and having boys look at me the way they never did when I was a teenager was the best ego boost.
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:24, Reply)

Heh, tell me about it
but it also makes me a bit sad, knowing that I'm the same person but they never would have looked twice before. Men are deeply shallow, if there is such a thing.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:26, Reply)

Everybody is shallow when it comes to physical attraction.
If I hadn't fallen in love with mr b3th online before I met him in person,I wouldn't have looked twice at him.
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:28, Reply)