Is that shoving it down his throat
or a way to keep in touch with his grandchild?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Thu 27 Oct 2011, 20:30, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

Well, he always makes a point of asking my brother if he's 'reconsidered his relationship' with the mother
So that everyone can be happy families, despite the fact my brother is engaged to another girl.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 27 Oct 2011, 20:35, Reply)

Perhaps by reconsider the relationship
he means have contact with his own child, and maintain some sort of civil relationship?
That sounded unnecessarily confrontational, sorry. But the point stands it's not unreasonable for him to invite his grandchild along for Christmas
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Thu 27 Oct 2011, 20:40, Reply)

Tbh, there's so much backstory to this even I struggle to remember it all
My post below explains it best, methinks.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 27 Oct 2011, 20:50, Reply)