Not really in my case.
I genuinely loved the nutter and while the kid was a mistake it seemed like a good idea at the time, in the haze of love. He remains the best thing to come out of the relationship. WHile it was not what I would have chosn, it's not something I'd change either.

I hate it when parents say stuff like this, but it's hard to understand if you don't have kids. The bond is something it's really hard to understand, it's like falling instantly in love with someone, but with no sexual element and the knowledge that it will never end.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Tue 6 Dec 2011, 13:47, 2 replies, latest was 14 years ago)

Only the lucky few experience sexual urges

( Light In Chains maker of the ikea sofa, Tue 6 Dec 2011, 13:50, Reply)

Nah', I can imagine it, like if I had a dog like a labrador.
I once heard someone describe their child as "The best mistake I ever made", which I really liked.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 6 Dec 2011, 13:58, Reply)