FILL ME WITH YOUR SEEEEEEEEED!

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:38, 1 reply, 12 years ago)

i don't get this myth
friends my age and older who are single are much less likely to want to get tied down than younger girls. we're used to having everything our own way and having nice things and a good career etc etc, and it takes a lot to want to swap that for nappies and school run. i was much keener on the marriage/babies thing when i was about 25 in hindsight. now i've seen my brother's life with 3 sprogs, it's not that appealing!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:43, Reply)

My ex girlfriend was knocking on 40 and absolutely deperate to get married
She'd never been married before and clearly thought it was the ultimate achievement. The ink was still drying on my divorce so there was no way on earth it was happening. I finished it and she was 'totally devastated' apparently. So devastated that she had her claws into someone else within a couple of months and is now apparently engaged to another one having been going out with him for just 10 weeks. A bullet dodged there I think.
(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:54, Reply)

ridiculous
but i suppose it depends on circumstances. if you own your own place, have it just as you like it, go out every night and have a good career/income, then there's less incentive to change that, i guess.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:59, Reply)

She has most of that. Good job, nice house/car all that jazz.
But her mother is a complete fruitcake and measures success by whether you have a ring on your finger. Her dad bless him is a lovely old guy but isn't allowed an opinion on anything and is just a complete fucking doormat.

First time I met them I had a glimpse into my potential future and thought 'no ta'.
(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Thu 14 Feb 2013, 11:04, Reply)

i have friends in relationships who are desperate for a ring
and keep giving out ultimatums and deadlines. i just don't get it.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 11:06, Reply)

It's not a myth

( Kroney, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:55, Reply)

i have friends who were desperate to get married because they wanted to give up work
that's a bit different though
( rachelswipe with a fork, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 10:58, Reply)

Don't knock it, it's worked for b3th.

( Amorous Badger NAKED BEA ARTHUR PHOTOS 4U, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 11:04, Reply)

she had to make enormous sacrifices for that man
i mean, i've been to weston super mare.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Thu 14 Feb 2013, 11:07, Reply)