are you anti children as well?
seeing mini ape at the end of the working day is the best part of my day
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:34, 1 reply, 12 years ago)

Not anti per se,
But with the thing that makes lady pig blind always hanging over us, on top of other things that go along with it, it's not a risk we'll take I imagine.
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:38, Reply)

Would you adopt?

( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:38, Reply)

I would, but I think it's a bigger deal from her point of view than mine.
With my career change under way it might be more likely, but who knows. We've always been never say never.
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:42, Reply)

fair enough

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:39, Reply)

Gene testing would tell you the risk. Via GP these days.
(Phudbree oh man, the Doric Yorick, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:43, Reply)

We know the risk, and it's high enough to warrant fair caution.

( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:45, Reply)

Yeah. Fair point. Difficult.
(Phudbree oh man, the Doric Yorick, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:46, Reply)

I'm just not sure she feels comfortable with adoption.
It's also not the easiest thing to get in to a chat about.
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Tue 13 Aug 2013, 21:59, Reply)

Probably the most difficult thing in any relationship.
These feelings develop over time, though and can change.
You'll both know best.
(Phudbree oh man, the Doric Yorick, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 22:04, Reply)

get her an adopted child and wrap it up and put it under the christmas tree

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 13 Aug 2013, 22:10, Reply)