Gargh!!!!
I'm a total total TOTAL cunt.

FUCK.
/bangs head against wall.

I need to keep my fucking mouth shut. FUCK!
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 3:06, 19 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

And the reason WHY I am such a spectacular cunt
is because I told my girlfriend that I felt bad because I don't have heaps of time; and now she thinks I want to break up with her and now I'm torn as to whether or not to sever it so I don't let her down even fucking more!

All I want is less stress. I have shit loads of school work to get through, shitloads of work to get through, and then i fall asleep any spare moment that I have! I know it seems like I'm here a lot but that's cos I post around studying and working mainly.

I feel like an A Grade Cunt of the Highest Order.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 3:25, Reply)

oh that's rough
is there no way to make her understand? or is she hurt beyond the point of reasoning? sorry, Vampy.

not that it helps, but I feel like a hopeless cunt at the moment, too. *communication* argh!
( cackers, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 4:14, Reply)

no - the opposite,
she's managed to make me feel like an even *bigger* cunt by telling me to do what I think is best for me.

Bloody fucking hell.

Tell me why you feel like a cunt cackers. Please? I don't want to think about why I'm such a cunt.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 5:50, Reply)

You're a human being
Worse, a teenager.

I once broke up with someone because I was working too much and not getting enough sleep and wasn't connecting with them. 1 good night's sleep later it felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest and I scrambled to patch things up with them.

Try getting 8 hours sleep several nights in a row, you'd be amazed at the difference it makes.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:01, Reply)

/bites lip
Light - I've been sick since last ... sunday - I've easily gotten 8+ hours of sleep a night every day this week - hell on friday I got nearly 14.

In all honesty I would rather just go back to being friends with her so I don't continually let her down. Right now I just feel like a shit gf.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:09, Reply)

Mornin' VC
I hope this doesn't sound too Agony Aunt-ish but...you've got to get things wrong so you can learn how to get things right.

If I had one of those questionnaires that says "Is VC a total cunt?" I'd tick the "Disagree Strongly" box.

OK, it's very glib and trite for me to say but it's something you'll bounce back from fairly quickly. If a similar situation arises again you'll either know better what to do, or understand better the emotions and reactions of the other person.
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:42, Reply)

Well, you're not on top-form
and that affects your thinking, is my point.

It sounds like she wants to be with you, it's just that with work and school you have very little free time. It also sounds like she understands that and is fine with it, so keep going says I.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:49, Reply)

^ ^
what Light said
( cackers, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:55, Reply)

Argh!
I clicked I like this accidentally :(

MUST TRY HARDER
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 7:58, Reply)

thanks guys
sorry for using up some of your love for today.

/mans the fuck up

and No3l - I love that picture - thank you - i'm printing it and putting it on my wall. :)
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:04, Reply)

VC
sent you a gaz
( cackers, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:07, Reply)

/huggles everyone
thanks again everyone.

Cackers - got it. :)
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:10, Reply)

@ No3l
Nice one, I'll keep it up on my screen today.
( cackers, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:15, Reply)

morning you bunch of fliddy mong twats!
VC: you beat me to it but here goes anyway...

it's time to man the fuck up! you are MOST DEFINITELY NOT A CUNT. yes, you have one, and so does your GF but that's where ther cuntiness ends.

you're just being a bit mental at the moment because, as has already been pointed out, you're a teenager!

and we love you for it.

that is all!

X
( blaireau69 , the Cumbrian Travis Bickle., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:17, Reply)

Morning B69 Marrer - are thee reet?
Girding your loins for another typical Cumbrian Sunday of tampering with sheep, then standing by a lamp-post in the rain?

Ah, they were the salad days and I'm making myself feel homesick.
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:44, Reply)

A google maps search on B69
indicates that it is Oldbury.

Old. Bury.

I attach no significance to this.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 8:52, Reply)

My opinion
is that in this situation (which, for the record, is one I identify with all too much) you should not make that decision for her.

If she thinks you're a cunt, let her be the one to tell you so and finish it. But to finish with her because YOU think you're a cunt does not take into account her opinion or choice on the matter. That's not actually fair on her. And would hurt you both, probably unnecessarily.

*has been there is also there and has had pithy boyfriend giving advice to me which I have just given here*

*realises he's right, dammit*
( warmfuzzies Isn't here, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 18:11, Reply)

okay
i will consider myself corrected
( blaireau69 , the Cumbrian Travis Bickle., Sun 1 Mar 2009, 19:55, Reply)

And
Located in the West Midlands, near Dudley.

As a housing estate.

Who'd have thought it, eh?
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Sun 1 Mar 2009, 20:09, Reply)