because maybe you hope he's changed,
and you want to be there in case he has?
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:50, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I hope, but to be honest I don't hold out a lot of hope.
He's too set in his ways and even if I was to do what he wanted I doubt it would make a difference now. I has a sad.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:56, Reply)

/gives massive boobsquishy hugs and love
s'always possible though.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:58, Reply)

/enjoys boobsquishy hugs and love and reciprocates
My mum's at the end of her tether with him; he has to put up and shut up or he's in the street, apparently. Even that won't make him acknowledge his only child...
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:04, Reply)

what happened to make him not speak to you, can I ask?

(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:09, Reply)

I chose not to move back in with them after I finished uni
but stay here with my then-boyfriend and get a job and a flat. This made me a selfish bitch who didn't care about her parents.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:13, Reply)

I don't think that's selfish,
I think that's being a mature and independant adult. I think he just misses you really. He's hurt you didn't come home and had trouble accepting you weren't his "little girl" anymore.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:14, Reply)

That's the length of it really, plus the fact he's very very against living together
when you're not married - however shouting at me about "living in sin" when he's an atheist is the stupidest thing ever! All I can do is wait either for him to come round or for my mum to cunt him in the fuck.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:26, Reply)

oh dear. sounds like might take a while.
Anywho, off to bed now my lovely.
/gives another massive boobsquishy hug full of love and fluff.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:29, Reply)

It's been a year since he's spoken to me. In that time I've got a job and
lived with him for nearly a year and have just renewed the contract. Still no contact.

Sleep well my love /boobsquishy hug and fluffeh love
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:31, Reply)