Just to wish all b3tans
of the male persuasion whose baby gravy ended up where Nature intended and produced a sprog - or sprogs - Happy Father's Day.

(Note for non-UK b3tans - it's Father's Day here).

Especially this goes out to those who for whatever reason don't have the contact with their kids they might like to have.

That's all.
( I_Was_Mordred, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 8:33, 18 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

9 months before mothers day
someone had a sense of humour in the Hallmark (UK) Marketing department.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 8:44, Reply)

i wonder what came first...
the chicken or the egg?
( blaireau69 , the Cumbrian Travis Bickle., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 8:46, Reply)

But if it was the other way round
it would mean it was the men who got pregnant for 3 months.
( mistaspakkaman and the inedible shifting caterpillars, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 8:58, Reply)

I never knew that!
That's hilarious.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 12:50, Reply)

Well, I sent the miserable old fucker a card.
No acknowledgement, no thank you. Will not bother next year unless he pulls his head out of his arse.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 12:34, Reply)

maybe he just didn't get it?
sometimes things get lost in the mail.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:07, Reply)

Could be the case
although he didn't acknowledge it last year, either. Or his birthday card or Christmas present. Don't know why I bother.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:38, Reply)

because maybe you hope he's changed,
and you want to be there in case he has?
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:50, Reply)

I hope, but to be honest I don't hold out a lot of hope.
He's too set in his ways and even if I was to do what he wanted I doubt it would make a difference now. I has a sad.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:56, Reply)

/gives massive boobsquishy hugs and love
s'always possible though.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 13:58, Reply)

/enjoys boobsquishy hugs and love and reciprocates
My mum's at the end of her tether with him; he has to put up and shut up or he's in the street, apparently. Even that won't make him acknowledge his only child...
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:04, Reply)

what happened to make him not speak to you, can I ask?

(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:09, Reply)

I chose not to move back in with them after I finished uni
but stay here with my then-boyfriend and get a job and a flat. This made me a selfish bitch who didn't care about her parents.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:13, Reply)

I don't think that's selfish,
I think that's being a mature and independant adult. I think he just misses you really. He's hurt you didn't come home and had trouble accepting you weren't his "little girl" anymore.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:14, Reply)

That's the length of it really, plus the fact he's very very against living together
when you're not married - however shouting at me about "living in sin" when he's an atheist is the stupidest thing ever! All I can do is wait either for him to come round or for my mum to cunt him in the fuck.
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:26, Reply)

oh dear. sounds like might take a while.
Anywho, off to bed now my lovely.
/gives another massive boobsquishy hug full of love and fluff.
(Poppet some assembly required., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:29, Reply)

It's been a year since he's spoken to me. In that time I've got a job and
lived with him for nearly a year and have just renewed the contract. Still no contact.

Sleep well my love /boobsquishy hug and fluffeh love
( Maladicta, Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:31, Reply)

Thank you
I got a Mr Grumpy t-shirt. How appropriate.
(porkylips looks better as the sun goes down., Sun 21 Jun 2009, 14:43, Reply)