OK
If I've made assumptions I'm sorry - I've just been going off the information in front of me, both here and on facebook. I've seen you make personal attacks on people and then insist it's their own fault they're upset. Yes I agree, as I said - people's feelings are their own responsibility and I don't believe in victimhood. But when an attack is deliberate, you can't hold THEM responsible for YOUR behaviour. That's what I take issue with. That's not comedy.

Speaking of FB, when we had that discussion on FB I mentioned that I had actually called you out on the board too, but you must have missed that. You never answered it. Anyway, I called you out here today.

EDIT: And, um, I didn't call you an attention whore, and I didn't speak to you "as a friend". Anyway. I hate splitting hairs, it's so petty.

I never said you or anyone else should be perfect. I'm not a fascist. Just don't like seeing people getting hurt by someone who is deliberately trying to do it.

I stand by everything I said. I haven't backtracked on anything, only said that I'm not very confrontational, and I probably would not confront you in real life. And yes it took me a while to compose that post because I'm not very confrontational on the internet either... We're not all blessed with your confidence.

And as I said too - the internet does make hypocrites of all of us. I shouldn't have called you a cunt. Sorry.
( warmfuzzies Isn't here, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 18:55, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Having never met me or spoken to me before, yes you have made assumptions about me. Please don't think for a second that you know me or anything about me other than what I choose to put up on these boards.
I also stand by what I've said. I think it is someone's fault if they are upset by words on a screen, said by someone who doesn't know them. I'm not in the slightest bit upset about what you've said about me today, mildly irritated which is why I came on here to answer it, but it's not something that will keep me awake at night.

Again, if you knew me you would know that I'm not the most confident of people, I have my hangups just the same as anyone else.

Edit: I didn't reply to what you said on the board because it was around 12 hours after the fact which I referred to up there. I didn't see what good it would do to stir it all up again after we had already discussed it at length on facebook.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 19:06, Reply)

Interesting
...Again, if you knew me you would know that I'm not the most confident of people, I have my hangups just the same as anyone else....

You may not believe this, but from this end of teh interwebs, it doesn't appear that way...
(CheatingRabbit, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 19:46, Reply)

Certainly interesting since my pet hate is arrogant people, they're the reason why I left my BBC job as I'd go home in tears most days.
Oh well, I guess you can't please everyone.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 19:59, Reply)

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I meant that to be complimentary...
(CheatingRabbit, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 20:14, Reply)

Puts down stick, picks up correct end of it.
Thanks
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Sun 12 Jul 2009, 20:23, Reply)