it's only the proper part that counts really

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:38, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Not really,
he did it even though he knew that she adored him, and had done for some time. He also knew that she would be devastated when she found out... just accept that he's a cunt.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:41, Reply)

well, that is extra cunty then
the fact that she was into him for a year before anything happened is irrelevant though.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:42, Reply)

So you think someone has a responsibility to the person that adores them?
That's not sarcasm. I'm really asking.
So it would kind of be ok for them to still be sleeping with other people at 3 weeks proper/three months not proper if neither of them were head-over heels?

EDIT: I suppose I meant that for Chomp really. Oh i dunno I've eaten too many cakes and bananas.
/sanity
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:45, Reply)

not sure whether one of us is slightly misunderstanding something here
my view is that if someone likes you, no matter how much, and nothing has happened previously then you have no responsibility to them at all. it is entirely their own issue. Once something has happened, if it is still casual there is a little responsibility there, but still not much. once it is something proper then sleeping with an ex is very much a no-no

edit: that makes more sense
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:48, Reply)

yeah
I think I agree.
I wonder if she knew he was a cunt and went ahead anyway though.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:50, Reply)

that would be a typical woman thing to do
several times in my youth I was in a position where I liked a girl, we got on really well and had a bit of a snog and stuff, but ultimately they would prefer to go out with some cunt, who they know is a useless cunt.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:51, Reply)

I made it clear to her that he was a cunt before anything happend,
she ignored me.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:53, Reply)

Maybe not, I'm not sure,
I think the reason I'm so annoyed about it is that she's a very good friend, I've known her since I was 13-14. She hasn't had a boyfriend for a while because her last boyfriend screwed her over and then the one time she starts a relationship within a month he's cheated on her.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:52, Reply)

if she's into bastards
You might have to get used to feeling bad on her behalf.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:55, Reply)

that sucks
it's annoying and saddening watching someone like that have these shitty relationships.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:55, Reply)