Although you're all down-to-earth types
who will therefore provide me with INTERNET VALIDATION, I am curious as to what people think as I've already had the "oooh, how did he propose?" conversation (he didn't - we think that we should both get a say in what we'd like from our futures and so we went to the register office and gave notice) and "oooh, what's the ring like?" (there isn't one, my ring needs are fulfilled in other ways) and "oooh, what's your wedding theme?" (er: wedding?).

I am evidently a FAIL to many people. I just don't get that floofy shit.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:54, 4 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Nobody can tell you how to get married,
it's up for you (and a much lesser extent catface) to decide.
(PsychoChomp, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:56, Reply)

Catface doesn't get a say
it's his job to agree with what crachouse wants. And to appear enthusiastic about all the decisions.
( Bazongaloid, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:57, Reply)

Are you kidding me?
He's more into it than I am. For a man who doesn't like flowers, I've been told in great detail about what buttonholes he'd prefer.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:58, Reply)

"oooh, what's your wedding theme?" (er: wedding?).
hahahahhaha

good attitude all round. I intend to propose to my gf at the appropriate time, because I want to, not because I feel I have to. As usual I find your thinking refreshing and logical.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:56, Reply)

*is validated*
I will use that in my sig.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:58, Reply)

People will always find a reason to judge other people and their choices in life.
So nuts to them, and the horse they rode in on.
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Tue 10 Nov 2009, 11:59, Reply)