Nope. You’re not being difficult.
DiT wasn’t too sure about wearing a wedding ring when we got married because he never wears any sort of jewellery. I have to say I wasn’t so sold on the idea either seeing as I never wear rings. We both brought them for the wedding and I wear mine now and have got used to it, DiT wears his too but I wouldn’t be pissed off with him if he didn’t. You don’t need a piece of metal on your finger to prove you love someone, you don’t even need a wedding, I think people sometimes put too much emphasis on that sort of thing.
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:52, 3 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Down with that sort of thing!
I did offer to get a cock ring, apparently this is inappropriate as I would have to walk around with my todger hanging out at all times.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:53, Reply)

Hmmm
its another option... so is getting a ring and having it around your neck on a chain... like Frodo! :D
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:54, Reply)

Are you saying that i like to spend my eveings

with a fat midget who follows me everywhere and is obsessed with my "ring"?
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:57, Reply)

Hey what you do with your personal life
is no business of mine, I'm just dishing out internet-based advice!

Boo-Yah!
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 16:01, Reply)

I was concerned with this
because my mrs never wears them. I'm in the process of designing and commissioning an engagement ring and it'd be nice if she were to wear it. I'm sure she will once used to it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:54, Reply)

We designed a ring together

best decsion ever, as I would have got it totally wrong. What we always assumed would suit her didn't at all!
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:56, Reply)

this is a good point
I've made sure that the main features are things that she likes, through a subtle regime of questioning over a longish period. do need to get her to try some though, to make sure it will suit her!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:57, Reply)

Oh if you get her one she will totally wear it
You do just get used to that sort of thing. I usually wear my engagement ring and my wedding ring together but the diamond in my engagement ring moved the other day and I'm scared its going to fall out, so I'm taking it back to the crazy men on Hatton Garden to go 'Oi... fix it, fix it, fix it'
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:56, Reply)

I'm cunningly designing it so the diamond is flush with the surface to avoid catching it on things
and such like.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:58, Reply)

Good thinking Batman
I get mine caught on my tops sometimes, its a ballache
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 16:00, Reply)

I would be terrified of losing it
If I ever got married I would get a silver one from the HPJ or Lizzie Duke. Cheap and easy to replace.
I lost a ring my ex gave me. We were in Virgin and I was talking animatedly, as I do, and it just flung itself across the room, never to be found. It was really unusual and apparently irreplaceable and I felt terrible. My ex made me feel terrible too.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:55, Reply)

Deffo
My wedding band was a cheap-oh one, the engagement rings where the moneys at! *fears*
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:57, Reply)

Wear the engagement ring under the wedding ring
The wedding ring will be a buffer zone!
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 26 Nov 2009, 15:59, Reply)

Ah clever
buffer zone! Ooooooh!
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Thu 26 Nov 2009, 16:00, Reply)