Sorry to hear that
it's better that he does it now rather than in the new year (which is a busy time in dumpsville). This way you can look back on Christmas and not see everything he did and said as one big lie.
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Wed 9 Dec 2009, 10:20, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

It has to be done when it has to be done.
Otherwise, oh no it's just before Christmas.
Oh no, it's just before new year.
Oh no, just after the holidays.
Oh no, just before Valentine's Day.
Oh no, just after Valentine's Day.
Oh no, we'd already booked a holiday.

Throw in birthdays and anniversaries and if you're that worried about it being the wrong time you'll never do it.
(wellgroomedwookiee is a filthy-minded hobgoblin, Wed 9 Dec 2009, 11:16, Reply)

I once spent the best part of a year doing that
but I was younger then and had an over-active sense of guilt
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Wed 9 Dec 2009, 11:40, Reply)