Well I know for a fact he can lie to me.
Still all of what you said doesn't make me feel any better. As your well aware I am not a person that get's attention from the opposite sex very often.
( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:01, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Well believe me,
getting lots of the wrong attention is no better than getting scant attention.
If he's a liar, then you don't need him. I'm glad he's engaged. It means you're safe from him for the time being.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:04, Reply)

I'm just fucked off that I'm back where I was a year ago.
Sitting at work crying my eyes out and all the self esteem I'd crawled back is gone again.
( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:10, Reply)

It's ok to feel bad
Just don't let your self esteem go away. You are the most important person right now, and you know you are good.

He's taken enough from you, don't let him hurt you more.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 10 May 2010, 9:18, Reply)

As I said before
I think the only reason why you don't get more attention is because you really think you are not good enough.

Believe me, a bit of self esteem works miracles with these things. I've gone through that. Years and years of believing I'd never get a bf because there was something wrong with me. As soon as I started to get positive and brave, things went much better.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 10 May 2010, 9:09, Reply)