I know, with divorce being so prevalent it does seem that marriage is just a pointless formality nowadays
but I still like the idea of having a husband and being someone's wife rather than just 'boyfriend and girlfriend' forever, as that seems so casual and almost teenager-like. I understand why people think you shouldn't have to have a big ceremony to be committed to someone forever, but sometimes it's nice to be traditional.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 12 May 2010, 16:58, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I would not dream of denying you the right to you ceremony
nor mocking you for it. My question, I suppose is more, is my commitment to be counted for less because it does not come with the same ceremony.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Wed 12 May 2010, 17:00, Reply)

not at all
except in a legal sense, which is unfortunate but that's the way it is

the law frowns on my close relationship with Mary Jane, but that doesn't stop it going on.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 12 May 2010, 17:02, Reply)

It's true,
it's a bit unfair that things like insurance go down if you're married, but unfortunately that's the way the law works in this country at the moment.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 12 May 2010, 17:05, Reply)

insurance goes down?
I am woefully ignorant of the financial implications of being married.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 12 May 2010, 17:17, Reply)

I think your life expectancy goes up
dunno why, but heard it somewhere.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Wed 12 May 2010, 17:25, Reply)

yeah, apparently you drive more safely when married
until the marriage breaks down and then you strap the kids into the back, telling them you're going for a picnic when really you're going to take them deep-lake diving without the scuba gear.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 12 May 2010, 17:38, Reply)

excellent
it looks more promising all the time!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 12 May 2010, 17:39, Reply)