If you could feel our pain
We don't do it on purpose, it kinds of happens, and then we usually feel very bad because we were unfair and, mostly, because we can't control ourselves.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 17 May 2010, 14:31, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I am more understanding than I let on I think
I find it completely baffling though. It is something so far outside a man's comprehension.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 May 2010, 14:35, Reply)

It's out of mine too, it just happens
I can't understand how men can have a hard on without a reason, or when they aren't really in the mood for sex or too tired.

I can't understand it either when he's so ill he can't barely move, but still wants to have sex.

I don't feel proud of my mood changes. In fact, they upset me terribly, because I don't know if I am the unreasonable woman or the sweet one, and how much the hormones have to say in who I am.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 17 May 2010, 14:37, Reply)

I'd say that was more understandable
as often a hard-on isn't necessarily linked to being horny. A traveller for instance (definition 2)

so is purely an increase of blood to a certain area.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 May 2010, 14:40, Reply)

Exactly
So how much of my bad mood it's just because there are too many some hormones in my blood at that moment? Is that really me, or is it the chemicals in my body making me be like that?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Mon 17 May 2010, 14:42, Reply)

I think that is the bit that makes it so hard to understand
as either men aren't driven so much by hormones, or more likely, that they are driven the same way all the time.

I understand that it is not within your control (at least until you realise what is going on perhaps)
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 17 May 2010, 14:46, Reply)

I always thought I didn't get PMT
but then I realised that it manifests itself not in the stereotypical ways of me screaming about nothing, but that I'll suddenly find something stupid really moving. Like a coffee advert.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 17 May 2010, 14:52, Reply)