That sounds like a great plan
And a good middle point for both of you. How long does he think he'll need to get it all sorted?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:00, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Sorry, was at the bank.
It's a few years away methinks, he's working his way up at the moment. I feel like time is just rushing by at the moment which is compounding the problem, it seems like this year has flown and I worry that I'll suddenly realise I'm 35 and it's too late.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:41, Reply)

Yes, I've been feeling like that lately
35 doesn't have to be too late, but all depends on what you want. If you want a family then it probably is :(

If you don't want a family it should be ok.

I first moved from Spain when I was 25, and now after 5 years in England I feel like my blood is boiling, calling for another move.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:45, Reply)

Yeah I think that's my problem
I have restless blood. My dad's been all over the world, to almost every country. He lived in Malta when he was younger and he's got the best stories. I want to have stories.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:49, Reply)

My parents never travelled much
Us living in the Canary Islands and all the family in mainland Spain meant that all our holidays were always to Barcelona and Sevilla, which are good, but you get a bit tired of them after 25 years. I felt as if my family was robbing me of the opportunity to discover the world when I was at my best; that I had to move around and see as much as I could.

There is always someone tying me back. My family mainly, but right now it seems like nobody can force me to anything. I want to travel as much as possible before having kids, and then travel more.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:52, Reply)

yeah me too
I want to try and fit as much in as possible before I have kids. I hope I don't resent them!
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 16 Jun 2010, 16:55, Reply)

I'm going to make them travel like mad!
I think they'll end up just wanting to stay in a place for holidays :)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 16 Jun 2010, 17:01, Reply)