She doesn't know if she said yes, and we don't know if he was so drunk that her drunken yes just seemed like a sane yes
So whilst he's definitely a cunt, Kitty's saying he might NOT be a rapist.
She's giving him the benefit of the doubt instead of going "Oh he MUST have raped me!!!" like some mean people do, to cover their shame. This causes a bad attitude towards actual rape victims.
Kitty's being well fair here but possibly too hard on herself. Guess she'll never know.
Sorry such a vile thing happened, Kitzo.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:52, 2 replies, latest was 14 years ago)

^^This

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:54, Reply)

It's ok, it was years ago so I'm over it now.
You're right though Roota, I honestly don't think of him as A Rapist, even though I've known him to take the advantage when he can. It just wasn't worth it for what happened and I hate these girls who sleep with someone when they're drunk and then claim they were spiked and raped and blah blah blah, I think it's kind of insulting to people who are genuinely raped and it dilutes the seriousness of it. It's women crying false rape that make people question real rape and then it's harder to convict proper scum bags. This guy was just a horny loser who didn't care if I found him disgusting or not.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:55, Reply)

^This
Been in a similar situation.
Grey area. Not worth further hassle and humiliation.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:57, Reply)

yeah half of me didn't want to tell anyone
that he'd had his naked penis anywhere near me. Ick.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 12:03, Reply)