I only see it as ammo when they're coming after me in a personal way
i.e. finding stuff from another website and repeatedly bringing it up, I wasn't saying those things to be malicious, but to stop the ribbing.
Up until that point, I'll say and take anything anyone says as banter
( Bert Monkeysex is waiting for the mods to delete him, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:30, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I'd forgotten the dating site thing had been mentioned.
Don't know enough about the rest, so I'm keeping out of it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:34, Reply)

At a boy

( Bert Monkeysex is waiting for the mods to delete him, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:37, Reply)

I made one mention of the site on here. The rest of it was other people. I'm not ashamed of belonging to a dating site as I said at the time.
Oh and it was sheer coincidence that I found your profile on fathers day. I'd done my grieving bit in the morning instead.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:40, Reply)

Coincidence
or you've already been through every other man that'll have you in a 70 mile radius?
( Bert Monkeysex is waiting for the mods to delete him, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:43, Reply)

Not yet, but I'm working on it. Very very slowly.

( fuck shit up the best you never had, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 14:48, Reply)