After 2 weeks holidays together
she has a problem with you passing and saying hello?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:22, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

I have to wait 'til the weekend for my 3-hour court-appointed visit.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:24, Reply)

But that's so wrong
She's your daughter as much as hers. Why do you get only 3h/week visit? Were you a bad daddy? I wouldn't think so, therefore, what's the logical reason for stopping a father having some time with his child?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:31, Reply)

I dared to finish with my ex
for being scary, mental and physically violent.

This is her revenge.

I don't think I'm a bad daddy - most of the time I barely feel like a daddy at all.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:33, Reply)

What happens when you say
"Who did you come to when you were having wrong twins and you had nobody else? Is that the kind of man not fit to look after his own daughter?"
Does she do massive drugs?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:35, Reply)

She used to.
Fucking LOADS. She used to go out with ME for a time, don't forget.

Not any more though.


EDIT in answer to your question, she says 'oh right, I wondered when you'd throw that in my face'
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:44, Reply)

Does she ever use that against you?

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:44, Reply)

Yes.
On my life I would never, ever do even Small Drugs around my kid, and when I'm seeing her the next morning I am good as gold. There's no issue whatsoever with my recreational activities having a detrimental effect on my ability to care for my daughter.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:46, Reply)

No i know but she could use it against you whether there are any around at the time or not
Seriously, if it's one of the sticks she beats you with you should either stop, or start lying. I mean really convincingly lying.
Then she has nothing on you. She could go and mention it if you took her to court again, and that would make YOU look like the bad person and her look like a pillar of the community.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:53, Reply)

I can't stop :(

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:59, Reply)

is arranging her death a viable possibility?

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:01, Reply)

It has been suggested a number of times,
by a number of people.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:12, Reply)

would custody be guaranteed to fall to you though?

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:14, Reply)

Shush about it
if he does it, someone off here might grass him up.
If you can help him make her disappear, gaz him ;)
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:15, Reply)

Probably not.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:25, Reply)

offing her is probably not the best option then
wish I could offer something constructive, I really do.

Generally speaking most people and their problems can fuck off, but yours is really quite touching, and not in the sense in which touching is normally associated with you.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:28, Reply)

You can
You're not a bleeding junkie.
Or at least bloody tell her you've stopped.
Mong.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:04, Reply)

She gave me some hash
for agreeing to babysit after we came back from holiday - her objection is all about MONEY. If I can buy drugs/drink/records/clothes/food, that's money I should have given to her, in her eyes.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:18, Reply)

She'll use it against you.
Trust me.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 14:20, Reply)

Unfortunately,
"logical reasons" and "the British legal system" aren't regular bedfellows.
(LongJohnBaldry, Wed 14 Jul 2010, 13:34, Reply)