my wedding is going to be in september or october
could potentially be near halloween.

what's wrong with having it then?

Chompy summed up views on Americans nicely, and like him I get on with nearly all I've met.

The problem is that, from the outside at least, it seems like Americans think they are better than everyone else and deserving of special treatment purely because of that. Merely being an American is not some kind of achievement.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:18, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I guess I'm quite naive then.
I don't think we're better than anybody else, but I've not been out of Farmville for long (yes, I just said Farmville) and am still figuring out the big bad world.
(nolongernuts, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:22, Reply)

part of the issue is that there is so much american tv about
that it's easy to think that most americans are like those on tv.

but given that there are like 250 million of you(?) that's almost certainly not the case.

I've not met an american I didn't get on with.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:28, Reply)

I really enjoy the West Wing
but it does give a sense of "we're the only ones qualified to deal with the world's crises"
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:30, Reply)

you get with nearly all you've met?
tart
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:29, Reply)

I have no idea what you are talking about

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:32, Reply)

not really ninja editing,
perhaps old and fat ninja editing. Where you can see his grey underpants peeking out of his ninja uniform where it doesn't quite fit around his middle anymore. And he's wearing slippers.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:38, Reply)

quiet you
or I'll never teach you how to make a ninja mask out of a t shirt
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 9:52, Reply)