Sorry
I did read the thread but I must have missed it. Can you remember the name of that damn Kibbutz study?
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Sat 11 Sep 2010, 11:13, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

I meant that I'd said that if you've grown up with someone then it's bizarre to view them as a sex object.
It's gone a bit Wuthering Heights in here.
(dozers, do fuck off ur a nob m8, Sat 11 Sep 2010, 11:14, Reply)

Yeah, I agree.
I get where Enzyme is coming from, in that if there's no harm and it's all consensual then where's the problem? But yes, I agree - veiwing someone you've grown up with as a sex object is a bit fucking weird. Which is why I don't realy see the problem in the case of BMS. The only real issue is the psychological damage they might both have from going against what is a pretty fucking strong tabboo in most societies.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Sat 11 Sep 2010, 11:20, Reply)

As I said before
viewing anyone as (simply) a sex object might well be morally shoddy - it's not obvious what being a sibling adds.

And the psychological harm, if there is any, seems to come from the reaction; hence the reaction can't be explained or justified by appealing to that harm.
( Enzyme is powered by sunlight, Sat 11 Sep 2010, 11:27, Reply)