I understand what you mean
I had an ex who lived quite far away so I would spend all weekend with him and then not see him for two weeks so you would think I would cherish the whole time I spent with him but I found myself wanting a break from him after a day or two so I realised that it didn't really have a future if I couldn't stand to be with him for long periods and as soon as I noticed that I think I mentally wrote off the relationship so he couldn't do anything right after that.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:54, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

Been there, done that
Although I did enjoy spending my time with her every weekend.

I'm pretty convinced that I like my own space too much to ever commit myself fully into a relationship.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:56, Reply)

Amen and high fives to this also
Especially since I've lived essentially on my own for a good 7 years. Although I fear that 'my own space' and 'too cold and dead inside to actually love someone properly' are interchangeable in my case.
(berk, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 14:59, Reply)

Maybe in my case too
But that doesn't bother me.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 15:00, Reply)

I was once like you two
my friends said I was cold and dead and incapable of love, and I thought so too until I met Wiggy, so I think you just need to find the right person and the right balance. Although I think I got fucking lucky because he puts up with all my lazy, high maintenance shitehawkery.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 7 Oct 2010, 15:09, Reply)