Go for the Hove job.
The commuting will put stress on your relationship eventually, and will sap the "fun" element of your current job.
Clearly, if you were head-hunted for your current job, and the Hove people are keen, then obviously you're good at wahtever you do and I doubt that a future employer would overlook that because of you only staying in the job for six months, particularly as you have such a valid reason for leaving.

Good luck.
(Cave Duck, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 16:25, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

sound advice i think
plus the extra 4-5k a year will enable me to shower her in somethign other than man-fat.. like gifts. that is, if i wasn't such a cheap bastard :D i'll probably settle for redeeming myself through being around to cook the dinner more often, to offset all my wages going on camera kit and guitars.
(UppityDamnPrimate LET'S OPEN THIS F*CKING PIT UP, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 16:27, Reply)

her in somethign other than man-fat.. like gifts. that is, if i wasn't such a cheap bastard :D i'll probably settle for redeeming myself through being around to cook the dinner more often, to offset all my wages going on camera kit and guitars
( Bartleby A dead man on vacation, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 16:31, Reply)

extended strikethrough text lulz
and just cos it'll ENABLE me to shower, doesn't mean i'm going to.
(UppityDamnPrimate LET'S OPEN THIS F*CKING PIT UP, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 16:33, Reply)

I was going to offer this advice,
Don't commute, it will kill you.
( Bartleby A dead man on vacation, Mon 18 Oct 2010, 16:38, Reply)