As I recall you and the lady before were on the rocks and you did the right thing and ended it
You weren't 'shagging' behind your bird's back' in that sense or for very long.
And she did not deliberately persue you as far as I know.
I always think it best to end one before going into another, but look, you're still together and you're getting married.
i think setting out to 'steal' someone is well mean.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 13:59, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

not on the rocks so to speak
but I was slowly coming to the conclusion that our futures weren't compatible.

Didn't have sex with Mrs V until after breaking up with the ex either.

I would have broken it off immediately but we were all doing our finals and stuff at uni, so thought best not for the time being.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 14:02, Reply)