Okay.
Reality.

Maybe you have. But. And this is the point. You were unhappy, for whatever reason, you were unhappy.

People don't just 'upgrade' the subconscious is always working. For whatever reason, your head was telling you to get out of that relationship, and sad though it maybe, you've done it. You might feel more unhappy now than you did before, but it is done.

I know just how upset I was when I ended my marriage even though it wasn't working and there was no chance of making it work. It is a major life event. It will hurt, even if you've ended it for the right reason.

Don't feel guilty. It is, sadly, life.

If you have made a mistake, you'll get over it. In time. If you haven't, then you'll get over it a lot quicker and you've a lot of fun ahead of you.

We make our own decisions, don't let these decisions depress you.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:46, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

Sensible answer is sensible
especially for you, Jeff. I do know that it's probably for the best, for everyone concerned. I'm still going to be all maudlin and stuff for a while though.
(berk, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:56, Reply)