Look Monty.
She's three? She's not going to throw a paddy because the castle is staying at yours. There will be lots of lovely presents at her house. The important thing is having something that you can share joy in playing with when she's at your house and that is far more important. As much as you love your daughter, tea sets and teddy bears isn't your bag.

If she was older then I would say let her decide but at that age it's not important.
( girlinthehole, Wed 17 Nov 2010, 14:39, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

she won't remember why it was only at daddys, she'll remember that she always got to play with an awesome castle while she was there

( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 17 Nov 2010, 14:43, Reply)

And that daddy loved playing with it with her.

( girlinthehole, Wed 17 Nov 2010, 14:44, Reply)

this is good advice

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 17 Nov 2010, 16:27, Reply)