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"Recently," Broken Arrow tells us, "The missus informed me that her brother was moving with us." What has your partner done that's convinced you the magic's gone? "Breathe" is not an answer.

(, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 12:33)
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Kanye West has a point...
The Gold Digger

Hot East European. I left my (long since dead) marriage for her. Spent next five years being a complete door mat by my own admission and indulging in entirely voluntary self-sabotage by the simple mechanic of not understanding why a "hotty" would be interested in me. On the basis of mature reflection I now recognise that "hot" = "insane" in my experience, although, to be honest, I suspect and hope-to-goodness that this is simply my own experience.

By the end of five years in which I'd been dumped twice (err, hint?) I realised I was tens of thousands of pounds out of pocket and, having bought her a house amongst other things, I wasn't able to obtain any redress. At the time, non-nationals weren't allowed to own property in that country.

She's obtained assets and stuff worth at a reasonable estimate of about 150K: on balance, I've obtained a life-time of medication and a life lesson in not being quite so trusting, nor naïve. I'm not a bad person or revolting in looks / personality simply far, far too trusting. Oh well, lesson learnmd.

EDIT: thanks to RNUK for the hint, hence edits. Not seeking a place in the newsletter though.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 19:03, 22 replies)
can i got out with you?
I'll not take, but I think you're ok with that.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:09, closed)
Haha, gutted.

(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:18, closed)
Swings and roundabouts innit
I bet your ex-wife howled with laughter up her sleeve when she found out.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:20, closed)

(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:30, closed)
She got 150k out of of it
I don't see why she'd have to be insane to be interested, unless you're extremely revolting in person.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:42, closed)
Sounds like the act of someone pretty sane to con 150 grands worth of house out of someone.

(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:44, closed)
Where do I send my CV?
150 grand for 5 years of holding my nose and fucking someone then treating them like a doormat?

Hell, I've had worse jobs for less money.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 21:16, closed)

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 10:08, closed)
Again, if you want to 'win' your place in the newsletter, edit it down
and finish on a joke, not a nobwank appeal for pity.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:45, closed)
You massive doormat.
Doing exactly what I tell you. Fucking hell.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:58, closed)
Bless him.
Fancy listening to you!
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 21:05, closed)
Lifetime of medication?
Antidepressants, or did she give you the herp?
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 20:59, closed)
relationships should be about give and take

(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 21:01, closed)
She gave him Mental, he gave her a house.
Sounds like a fair swap.
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 21:03, closed)

(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 21:21, closed)
I'll nickname her "Little Boy"
And I'll nickname you "Hiroshima"
(, Tue 26 Oct 2010, 23:01, closed)
Ed? Is that you?

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 1:10, closed)
Hot East European
This statement requires photographic proof.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 10:36, closed)

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 11:22, closed)
Nice, but...
...he looks more middle eastern to be honest.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 11:38, closed)

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