Nah..
Lie to me, steal from me or even give me a good kicking and, chances are, one day I'll forgive you.

But cheat on me and I'll reserve a special part of my soul for you where I'll hate you forever.

Just my view.





Cheers
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 9:23, 1 reply)

@Legless
agreed - one's view and all that.

I'm of the school of thought says it's just sex and far too much stock is placed in it.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 9:31, closed)

But It's Not...
just sex.

In a relationship there's trust, honesty and love. Risking that for a quick jump is lunacy.

That said, sometimes sex is just sex. If you've a fuckbuddy where there are no strong emotional attachments, then fucking someone else is OK. There's no promises, implied or otherwise broken.

The whole problem with cheating is the dishonesty. If you're prepared to be that dishonest what else are you capable of? If you feel driven to have sex while you're in a monogamous relationship then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.

As Pooflake said, it's the most disrespectful, legal, thing one person can do to someone they supposedly love.

Cheers
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 9:53, closed)

agree with
"If you feel driven to have sex while you're in a monogamous relationship then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place"

But this isnt normal or acceptable. If it were, single men 'of a certain age' wouldnt be constantly bombarded with leading questions such as,

"when are you going to settle down?"
"why dont you find yourself a nice girl?

etc.

People think you're weird for wanting to be single.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 10:07, closed)

Had That
.
Even though I almost always had a girlfriend I still had people suspecting I was Gay as I hadn't married and was almost 40.

Muppets.
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 10:11, closed)

dont agree with
"The whole problem with cheating is the dishonesty. If you're prepared to be that dishonest what else are you capable of? If you feel driven to have sex..."

Capable of what? Where is this slippery path leading?

I never feel driven. I'm pure path of least resistance, me.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 10:14, closed)

^^^^^This!
Different things work for different people. No one outside of a given relationship can know what goes on inside it.

Treat others the way you'd like to be treated, perhaps, eh? That's a bit more flexible.

Holy fuck, we're well-adjusted for Irish people, eh baz?
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 11:22, closed)

Well Adjusted Irish People
.
You dribble out of both sides of your mouth at once...?

*runs very fast*

Cheers

sorry.sorry.sorry.....
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 11:37, closed)

wouldn't that be
well-balanced? ;)
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 11:40, closed)

Touche....
.
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 11:44, closed)