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Serious story I'm afraid

I have an ex who so seriously fucked with my head, I spent about 5 years being completely insecure and not knowing whether I was coming or going (emotionally) and being incredibly insecure. Note: I'm better now - ask around. Ahem.

Goes without saying that she's mentioned with the words "Evil cow" - I'll not name her here. I've mellowed over time and I no longer hate her, but what she did to me.

Anyhoo - My Mum recognised this and tried to ban me from seeing her. My Dad had died a couple of years previously and she was trying to finish bringing up a 16/17 year old rebelling son and an 17/18 year old daughter who was just nuts.

I resented being stopped from doing anything so a "No" was a challenge - "You must not see Getrude" was like a red rag to a bull.

My Mum did try and tried to lay down the law, but she couldn't ever stop me from seeing her.

Needless to say I resented this intrusion and continued to rebel. I think this has left a lasting problem in my relationship with my Mum and I don't think it's ever going to be fixed.

I understand what she was trying to do, but telling a hormonally charged 17 year old that he can't see a girl who he liked is about as likely to work as asking frankspencer to stop writing his interesting stories.

I stopped seeing the girl when I realised that she was a psycho and never, ever admitted to my Mum that she was right.

If I knew then what I know now.... I would probably still do it as it's made me what I am now:

Nuts.

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(james_tiger_woods is going to start his killing spree on the, Wed 14 Mar 2007, 15:32, Reply)