is on the side because,
1 - you can't fall off
2 - you can both lie down. great if you are feeling sick
3- you can reach around
EDIT: I forgot to mention the 'from behind' bit.
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:03, archived)
and yes the from behind does make life better
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:07, archived)
Spooning-sex. Great for early morning lazy rogering too.
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:07, archived)
It doesn't have to super-energetic to be good sex - although that is undeniably fun, too.
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:12, archived)
(And I actually enjoy going on top)
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:08, archived)
but have given up doing that in bed, as when I'm drunk it just gets really clumsy.
Up against a wall, or better; bathroom sink with mirror in front of you both - that's ace :D
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:11, archived)
he'd shagged a girl while she was brushing her teeth...well, I could't not try it, could I?
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:13, archived)
It is my biggest failing to date. I don't know if I'm built wrong or something but things never seem to 'line up right'. Lots of pushing and grunting and then giving up. But when we are hammered, more often than not we both fall asleep.
edit: notoriously, I once did this whilst on the job and she won't let me forget it
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:08, archived)
Can result in a lot of popping out if you get it wrong :).
Trick is to angle yourself right. Can't suggest anything more than that, because like I say, I'm usually spannered
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:12, archived)
I demand a refund!
I hardly drink any more so this doesn't apply to me that often. What surprised me is that I don't find that I feel self conscious when we try all sorts of new stuff like tying up and bizarre new places without being drunk.
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:16, archived)
someone that is too shy about sex/trying new things/too self concious can be very off putting
you spend more time worrying about them than having fun and you know that they are too worried to be having fun
so it all becomes a bit pointless
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:22, archived)
By and large I am a fairly quiet person and prone to being a bit shy; an effect I expected to be amplified by removing all my clothes in front of someone. It turns out that it is quite the opposite, I don't get self conscious at all so it is a good thing all round. And light bondage is ace.
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:25, archived)
I'd recommend (to whatever degree you're comfortable with):
Eroto-asphyxiation (definitely this)
Candle wax
Blindfolds
My old g/f and I used to get a little carried away with a few things (cutting/power play etc) but it was all good :)
(, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:41, archived)