Erm...because there's a difference between the two?
Yes it's a bit forward but it's not an open invitation.
( SugarSpunSister Yeah, whatever, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:23, archived)

You are quite right.

( Wicca'd Witch needs ideas for a new sig on..., Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:25, archived)

I just don't think you can blame a guy
If you are going to be that forward.
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:27, archived)

I think actually everybody is responsible for their own actions.

( Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:29, archived)

Are you fucking stupid?
Really?

Where do you draw the line? No means fucking no, you stupid cow.
( Wicca'd Witch needs ideas for a new sig on..., Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:29, archived)

Oh silly Wicca
Everyone knows if you touch a winky, that means you have to have sex with the man! It's the Pickle Law!
( Theoban What of it, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:30, archived)

By her definition, marital rape doesn't even exist!

( Wicca'd Witch needs ideas for a new sig on..., Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:32, archived)

If I ever find a woman passed out drunk, by her rules, it's fair game! Silly bitch should know her limits!
What a world she must live in.
( Theoban What of it, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:34, archived)

That isn't the same thing at all

( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:36, archived)

I haven't even mentioned marital rape
I agree with every other point on the website. Just not the one where she is groping him because she doesn't want sex.
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:36, archived)

Why is that 'consent'?
Do you really believe that a man has no control of his penis, and that once it's touched he HAS to have penetrative sex, or he will spontaneously combust?
( Wicca'd Witch needs ideas for a new sig on..., Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:41, archived)

I don't think I said that

( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:44, archived)

So why is a man not to blame if he has sex with her against her will?
What is it that she has done, that implies consent?
( Wicca'd Witch needs ideas for a new sig on..., Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:49, archived)

blue balls innit
haw haw haw
( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:45, archived)

One of my exes had been told something similar by an ex of hers and believed it.
I didn't realise until she apologised for not being in the mood and was really concerned that I was going to be in a lot of pain.
( nick the greek, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:46, archived)

You can blame someone
when you say "no" and they carry on regardless.
( SugarSpunSister Yeah, whatever, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:30, archived)

You silly little girl.

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:32, archived)

What?
So men aren't in control of their actions?
( well, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:35, archived)

I think she's getting waaaaay too much attention for this drooling approximation to an opinion.
Shall we talk about winter vegetables instead?
( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:38, archived)

I want to get my own plot of land, fresh vegetables are truly a joy

( Theoban What of it, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:41, archived)

my marrow is particularly engorged at the moment

( Grrrmachine the indifference engine, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:41, archived)

That marrow
was gagging for it officer
( robh, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:42, archived)

I'm too angry now
I think I need to go listen to some PWEI and happy up
( SugarSpunSister Yeah, whatever, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:52, archived)

Of course they are
But I don't think you can accuse him of rape in that situation.
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:39, archived)

You can if he has sex with her,
even when she is saying "no in fact I don't actually want to have sex now please".
( Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Wed 29 Oct 2008, 18:43, archived)