i prefer to do it behind your back.
and by 'behind', i mean 'on'

peoples of the internets - educate me on Lymphoedema - i have an interview tomorrow.
( Godzuki needs more sleep., Mon 18 May 2009, 9:43, archived)

it has its own website!
www.lymphoedema.co.uk/
( manolith hooray for me, Mon 18 May 2009, 9:45, archived)

i learnt that it is common
and causes swelling

like (insert famous thick woman of choice)!
ho ho!
( manolith hooray for me, Mon 18 May 2009, 9:46, archived)

well Lymph...
you have Lymph glands which are a major part of your immune system,
Edema - swelling...
So your Lymphedema I would assume means your Lymph glands are swollen.
(Poppet some assembly required., Mon 18 May 2009, 9:45, archived)