My boyfriend has potentially broken up with me

But annoyingly, seems to have gone to sleep without confirmation. Sigh.

No particular reason either, he just seemed to go off on one having apparently mis-read a text message I sent him.

Ho hum, boys eh! No sleep for me tonight anywho. Awaiting news probably mid-moring / whenever he wakes up - while I'm at work. Yay.....
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:48, archived)

Sympathy fuck?

( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:50, archived)

Tempting...
But I ought to wait til he gets back to me I suppose.
I checked Facebook and everything (for it is the fountain of all knowledge), all he's done tonight since the misunderstanding is tag me in a few photos. So perhaps he's realised he was being silly, but just ignoring me to annoy me... He can be a spiteful little so-and-so sometimes.

Be nice to know though *annoyed face*
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:55, archived)

www.b3tards.com/u/63e645c3826fa9bc7564/ghostly1.jpg
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:50, archived)

www.b3tards.com/u/63e645c3826fa9bc7564/freaky.jpg
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:21, archived)

www.b3tards.com/u/63e645c3826fa9bc7564/daytime.jpg
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:21, archived)

Are these photos meant to relate to anything?
I'm guessing not, but thought I'd ask, just in case... *shrug*
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:25, archived)

You're not looking deeply enough into them.
It portrays and awful lot about yours and your boyfriend's relationship.
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:27, archived)

I guess the face in the second one looks a bit like me...
:D
But other than that I fail to see the resemblance
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:28, archived)

break into his haus
and bludgeon him to death. it's what he would have wanted
(rigby happened on (and with added toothache), Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:52, archived)

Fantastic thread!

( Ttssattsr, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:52, archived)

Apologies
But none of my friends are up this late, I didn't know who else to share my monotony with!
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:56, archived)

In that case, I too have woes.
It's fucking hot but I have great rotating fan. Sometimes I'm real warm and sometimes I'm chilly. PLEASE HELP.
( Ttssattsr, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 2:59, archived)

:(
I feel your pain
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:01, archived)

get a chair with wheels so you can keep in front of it

( cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:03, archived)

But then I'll just be cold.
What a horrible world we live in.
( Ttssattsr, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:18, archived)

Hold me.

( Ttssattsr, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:20, archived)

*holds*
virtually, of course
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:20, archived)

Excellent
So it seems he is a controlling passive-agressive to match your insecure over-emotionalism. what a nice pair.
crawl into bed and give him a blow job is my advice. It solves most relationship problems
( cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:01, archived)

TBH
I'm more concerned that I don't feel emotional about this. Just slightly peeved that he's left me not knowing either way! Doh.
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:03, archived)

Oh
And he's not at my house so blow job is not doable. I actually suggested he go home and play PC games (something he often moans about not being able to do much). I thought I was being nice...
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:06, archived)

*breaking up fives*

( Esme Weatherwax I swear on my tash it's daycent hash, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:21, archived)

Really? Were you living together?
Living together and breaking up is the worst.

On the plus side - Bruno is out soon
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:46, archived)

Technically no
But he does have clothes and a few other bits here. Hopefully that's not going to be an issue, if he stops being an arse when he wakes up tomorrow!
He's a strange one, one minute he wants to move in, the next he's got annoyed about something or other and wants to let me know what a crap girlfriend I am while telling me I'll lose him if I don't improve...
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:50, archived)

It sounds like you need to call his bluff and tell him to go fuck himself with that shit.

( Esme Weatherwax I swear on my tash it's daycent hash, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:51, archived)

He used to be such a happy chappy though
And I try to restore that status, but invariably fail as I can't make his shit job better, or improve his money situation *sigh*
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:56, archived)

You can't make him happy if he's miserable like that.
He's just going to end up making you miserable. He sounds like a right moody tosser, to be honest.
( Esme Weatherwax I swear on my tash it's daycent hash, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:57, archived)

This
I mean, try talking to him, tell him that's it not your fault and you're not going to take shit like that from him (if you really won't, it's your choice).

If he gives you a load of hell and dumps you, then better off without him.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:00, archived)

Humm
I have considered this, but I haven't really got the guts to do it. I'd probably just burst into tears, not want to say anything else, and wind him up. I do cry annoyingly easily (so I'm confused as to why I haven't even come close tonight)
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:08, archived)

I tend to cry too
You could not be crying for a few reasons:

1) You're not upset because it's not as bad as it seems

2) The idea of breaking up with him isn't that bad

3) You're numb.

I'd guess 1. It's late, he's not responding so it'll seem worse, and nobody likes fighting. Just see how it goes tomorrow :)

And on that note, I'm off to bed. My other half is blind drunk and I fear that he may fall over unless I tuck him in! Oh joy.

Good luck :)
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:16, archived)

Cheers
And good luck to you! G'night
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:19, archived)

sounds like you need to do the breaking up
otherwise, have fun accepting the emotional abuse.
( Shiksa, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:54, archived)

This.

( Esme Weatherwax I swear on my tash it's daycent hash, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:57, archived)

oww :(
Wasn't expecting any advice at all I must admit, this has taken me slightly aback...
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:03, archived)

Then darlin, LEAVE HIM
Any cunt that's slowly eating away at self-esteem like that isn't worth it.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:56, archived)

:(
It's a recent thing though, I was hoping I could make his life better and as a result mine...
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:59, archived)

He's asking you to 'improve'? At what? Why should you have to improve?
I wouldn't have the patience for that kind of shite.
( Esme Weatherwax I swear on my tash it's daycent hash, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:01, archived)

At being a girlfriend in general I think...
*shrug*
I do love him, he says he loves me, and it's not all bad - though more so since he started this shitty dead-end job.
I haven't really got anyone else either if I'm honest... Hence talking to b3ta *blushes*
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:06, archived)

Mate
If you think it will improve, then give it a go. Don't wait too long though. You can make friends. You can't easily recover from emotional abuse.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:08, archived)

Thanks dude/dudette
For all of your useful posts, good advice...
First thing is to see what he says tomorrow, if it's on I'm gonna see how it goes, talk to him if he keeps being a tit. If it's off, I've wasted everyone's time :( lol

I can hear birds and my house looks less dark, so given that I have to get up at 7 I think I might crawl back into bed and see if I can catch some sleeps. Thanks everyone for not flaming me for being a loser! :D
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 4:12, archived)

damn it all, I'm out of cig filters

( Gilgamesh gazed in wonder as Frampton came alive, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:28, archived)

Smoke it through cheese.

( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:31, archived)

www.bpmlegal.com/wcheese.html
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:31, archived)

lol
www.bpmlegal.com/wpeesupport.html
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:32, archived)

Haha!
Your Googlage seems far superior to most
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:34, archived)

I spilt a shitload of grated parmesan over a hot cooker once
the house stank like burning tramp underpants for a week
( Gilgamesh gazed in wonder as Frampton came alive, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:33, archived)

www.delphion.com/cgi-bin/viewpat.cmd/US05934226__?OUT_FORMAT=pdf&MODE=fstv
( mike woz ere 7442200 & 7696970 getter, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:39, archived)

Is he drunk?
Because that technically negates any kick-off over misunderstanding of text messages.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:43, archived)

I hope not,
Because it was only about 10 minutes after he told me he'd driven home.

I suspect (hope) that in the morning he'll have calmed down and will send me something that makes sense. Have a horrible feeling he'll make this my fault though *sigh*
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:47, archived)

He's not one of those.. y'know... hair long and side parted, depressing music types is he?

( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:50, archived)

You mean... An... EMO?!
Dear God no! He does have long hair, but no parting as such - tis dreadlocked. And he listens to DNB/Dub/Jungle mostily.
He used to be such a happy chappy, he has gone somewhat dark and misery-bound lately though. Presumably a combination of finishing uni, starting a shit job, having no money, and having a girlfriend who won't (quite) do everything he says ;)
(littlelise - domestically challenged, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:54, archived)

From what you'd said above
He's taking it out on you, and before the emotional abuse gets worse.
( Methylene Blue - electrohead, Thu 2 Jul 2009, 3:58, archived)