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# So what do you do when
for the last year your best friend is having the shit beaten out of her by her boyfriend, refuses to leave him 'because she loves him' then calls you at 1am from a hotel because he kicked her out with nothing except just her pj's on?
(I helped save b3ta! Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:36, archived)
# I'm feeling unsympathetic here.
1) give HER a kicking for being fucking stupid
2) arrange for HIM to have a kicking for being a cnut.
Separate the 2 with a bargepole.

Simple :)
(I helped save b3ta! witchy is covered in BEES, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:41, archived)
# This is one subject
That is really sad bu REALLY pisses me off

Why do these women fall for these twats when there are decent loving blokes out there (like me and others) who would love unconditionally without all this violence shit. She loves him ? can't possibly be true......I'm really sure she loves receiving a beating.

For advice however, you just have to take her under your wing and really make her listen this time.
(I helped save b3ta! koit WWW.HIGHASAKOIT.CO.UK, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:41, archived)
# It really pisses me off
because after my ex hit me once, I left him and she's like well done....yet she knows what he does to her, she's not happy and she will not leave because she's frightened of being 'alone'. She's 28, still lives with her parents - she has two wonderful friends (me and my other best friend) who are both there for her night and day. She's coming over this afternoon and i know she'll be back at his place tonight....
(I helped save b3ta! Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:47, archived)
# Wank innit
just stress that there are decent people out there in the ether who are also afraid of being alone but DO NOT subject themselves to this sort of shit.

Point her in my direction or some other nice blokes.
(I helped save b3ta! koit WWW.HIGHASAKOIT.CO.UK, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:50, archived)
# Getting someone to
kick shit out the boyfriend would seem ideal.
(I helped save b3ta! hobnobgoblin doesn't come here as often as he'd like to, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:41, archived)
# teach him a lesson he won't forget?
"solve problems with violence" - think he's learnt that one already.
(I helped save b3ta! Professor Fnord Regius Professor of B3ta Chronology, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:46, archived)
# I really am going out in a minute dude,
find yer files?
(I helped save b3ta! Alfie, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:48, archived)
# yep
did you want a specific length? Is it for new ones or some of the ones already done?
(I helped save b3ta! Professor Fnord Regius Professor of B3ta Chronology, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:53, archived)
# Im gonna clean up the existing first three that are a bit crap,
working on more, theyre dead easy so a good ongoing thing, what Id really like is theme music, as well as event sounds, but those will be per episode. Any ideas you have...
(I helped save b3ta! Alfie, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:54, archived)
# okay
will put thinking cap on.
(I helped save b3ta! Professor Fnord Regius Professor of B3ta Chronology, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 19:04, archived)
# I hate
to be serious on the board, but no funny aspect to that one! All i can say is use the situation to finally get her away from the a-hole.
(I helped save b3ta! Devious ...what?, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:43, archived)
# Im sorry to hear it
some girls have it inbuilt and even if you get her away from him, she'll probably end up with someone equally cuntish. In the short term, help her by letting her stay with you for a while and then get her doing something productive. sorry. :(
(I helped save b3ta! Alfie, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:45, archived)
# Please don't apologise. this is stuff
that I know will happen - hell, I did the same thing myself. Left my ex hubby cos he beat the shit out of me, but as soon as the ex boyf did I left...so it is possible to learn.
I just worry about her and wish there was something I could do.
I didn't mean to bring the board down but I kind of wanted outsider advice.
(I helped save b3ta! Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:48, archived)
# no its all good,
not apologising for me saying anything, just for her situ. and yes, people change and learn, so theres hope, if youve been throught the same stuff, you'll be a bigger help than anyone else. :) big love to her from the nice guys in the world ok?
(I helped save b3ta! Alfie, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:50, archived)
# She needs a nice guy
Hell, so do I! Which reminds me....I'm seeing Dan next weekend.
He gave me shit for running away from my own insecurities and I know he's actually right.

Anwyay, as for my girlfriend...I've told her over and over that we have a spare room in the house and that she's always welcome to come live with us...saying that, she's very sheltered. Doesn't pay rent at her parents AND her parents bribe her to clean her room!
(I helped save b3ta! Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 18:53, archived)
# In that case you REALLY need
to get her away from her parents otherwise she's gonna be fucked up for the rest of her life. She's got that idea of 'love' off her folks - she probably doesn't love the twat at all but doesn't really know any different; nobody in their right mind would stay with some violent arsehole.................; maybe its a sense of 'adventure' for her. Completely different to the closeted home life she's got.....
(I helped save b3ta! witchy is covered in BEES, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 19:02, archived)
# I wish life was that simple
Like I said, she doesn't pay rent, her parents smother love her and let her do what she wants, she knows how cushy she has it.
She can't live in "the real world" and sadly, it's very typically Californian.....:(
(I helped save b3ta! Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 19:06, archived)
# what do they say to her
when she comes home with a black eye or summat?! "Oh never mind honey, how was the rest of your day?"
(I helped save b3ta! witchy is covered in BEES, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 19:12, archived)
# if you gotta go, you better go now, go now
i can never understand women or to a lesser extent men that put up with anything like that. it is always easy to say just leave em though, but it is never *that* easy.... but leave em there's no excuse. and remember there are organisations out there for her to talk too if she wishes
(I helped save b3ta! Mosschops, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 19:01, archived)
# I know what I'd do
But I can't tell you cos I'd get us into trouble.
(I helped save b3ta! bigdave, Sat 5 Oct 2002, 20:10, archived)