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Last week I suggested a 'break' (air quotes absolutely necessary)

...we'd been fighting pretty hard lately because she thought I was trying to sleep with one of my female friends (one I've known for years, who has a boyfriend who is also a good friend of ours) and rather than deal with the issue (for the fourth or fifth time now) I suggested we take some time apart to try and sort things out. She wrote to my sister and told her it was over. Last night I had a massive argument with my sister because she was taking my girl's side, and today I called my girl and had a massive argument with her as a result. It seemed like it really was over for good, but I went round and explained myself and she admitted that she is sometimes (and it is only about 5% of the time) insanely paranoid and jealous. As a consequence we are giving it another go, albeit tentatively, but it's made my day.

*singing and dancing*

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emvee cruor deo cruoris, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 1:52, archived)

Epykk

Good luck :)

(Pimms'N'Lemonade thinks you are a twat, prove me wrong., Fri 6 Jul 2007, 1:56, archived)

Tune in

to the next episode of 'Why the Fuck Bother' next Fursday when something is boooound to go wrong.

Seriously, though...glad you're pleased with it and that but it sounds a bit mental. I've got the fear and I've not even you.

Hmm, does that sound lacking in sympathy / empathy? I didn't mean it to.

Or did I?*

_{*I didn't. Or did I?, etc...}

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An Eagle in Your Mind, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:00, archived)

Been there done that

too many times with the same woman, She then got paranoid that I'd leave her because she kept doing it.
So I left her.

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Laird Dave Draws Now charges to take off his clothes., Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:01, archived)

now that's kinda close to home

and I know exactly where you're coming from but my girl admits that she's been wrong now, and hopefully we can work around it

hopefully

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emvee cruor deo cruoris, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:05, archived)

I best not say anymore here

as my ex kept saying she knew shew was doing wrong, things would go better for a month or two, then back to square one. I just ended up thinking, "I can't fucking take this any more" She left me feeling like I couldn't leave the house to do anything without somehow cheating on her.

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Laird Dave Draws Now charges to take off his clothes., Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:07, archived)

received and understood

very, very understood

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emvee cruor deo cruoris, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:09, archived)

YOU DON'T LOVE ME, YOU'RE GOING TO LEAVE ME!

It should be an easy argument to win.

I let a(n otherwise) very smart woman win it recently. The trouble with crazy ladies is they fuck like crazy ladies, and that's hard to give up.

(Smoked Oysters Yes, magick helmet! And I will give you a sample!, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 5:47, archived)

'preciate the thought

but we've decided to take it very slowly with a 'bail out' option if need be. We''ve both got our eyes open to our problems, but I just don't want to give up on a three year relationship when I still love her and 95% of the time we get on really well

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emvee cruor deo cruoris, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:03, archived)

More fear!

It's good you've got a 'bail out' option, I reckon. 'Cos I went out with someone for two years longer than I should've on the back of a 'weeeell, we've been together for four years, it'd be stupid to chuck that away, eh?' type thing and it's not really a decent basis to keep a relationship going.

Jesus fistfuck, I'm going to shut up now.

/single angry loner that shouldn't be giving advice on any level, incorporating 'Misanthropists Weekly' blog

Good luck with it all!

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An Eagle in Your Mind, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:12, archived)

*takes comfort*

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.o0o.o0o.o0o. that's better, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:24, archived)

Thanks

I know it's not going to be easy but I need to try

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emvee cruor deo cruoris, Fri 6 Jul 2007, 2:40, archived)