i too find all of this fascinating
myself and mrs spimf have a fairly vanilla relationship, sure we use toys and she has dressed up (i'd feel daft dressing up, i look stupid enough in normal gear)

but how do you - for example have a disagreement over what curtains to buy, or what to have for dinner. is it total 24/7 domination.

i enjoy bickering with my wife, then again there are times when she could do with a good slap and being locked in a cupboard

actually...

*pops a semi*
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 19:25, 1 reply)

Well we don't live together yet
So domestic issues are rarely a problem.

I tend to get a caning (or, if i'm in a maso mood.. a not-caning) if I leave his flat in a tip. I tend to punish myself simply through the fact I feel bad if I annoy him or give him cause for complaint.. as my whole purpose is to make him feel good and to give him as stress-free an existence as possible. If he gets annoyed with me, I tend to feel like shit, until he gives me a stroke and forgives me. A 'good boy' always feels wonderful, every time. :D

As for chores.. He cooks, because I'm shit, and he likes cooking.. I do the washing up :P
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 19:53, closed)

i love this
i have visions of a dishwasher full of various plugs and dils

the washing line must be a sight to behold

god love the pair of ya*. fucking ace


*turn of phrase, i am a rabid atheist
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 19:57, closed)

Hehe cheers.
His place is more a bedsit, so its usually drying things across the room or over the shower. Things get washed in the shower usually... or I take em home and wash them. He uses a launderette haha, not ideal for gear really.
( MCQ Cartoons n' shit: bagowank.com, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 20:02, closed)

aw man
i love to see Dot doing your service wash
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 28 Oct 2009, 20:06, closed)