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Do you flirt with check-out girls just for the heck of it? Are you a check-out girl and flirt with sad-looking middle-aged men for fun? Are you Vernon Kay? Tell us about flirting triumphs and disasters

Thanks to Che Grimsdale for the suggestion

(, Thu 18 Feb 2010, 13:00)
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This I can tell you: approach a hot girl at a club and start chatting her up, and unless you look like Brad Pitt's better looking cousin or have more cash than Bill Gates and are willing to spend it all on her, you're going to get shot down immediately. Because it's not just a matter of convincing yourself that she's in your league, it's about convincing her that you're in hers.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:11, 3 replies)
Not true...
...how these women respond is down to your approach and the social value you have in the venue - I can guarantee you've seen loads of average looking guys with smoking hot women by their sides.

If you really want the smoking hot women in the clubs, you have to be more tactical how you approach them, and how you are socially proofed in the club. I used to host at several venues in London (all that means is I had a guest list and got paid for each person that went in on my list) but, it meant I knew all the staff/managers/waitresses in the place. So the 'hot' girls in there would see everyone of high value in the club responding very positively to me, which would make them intruiged to find out exactly who I was. I have neither money, nor Brad Pitt-esque look, yet I fared pretty well...
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:18, closed)
So basically they were after you because of your social standing and not your personality.

(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 15:15, closed)
Not really...
...just in that specific situation they are likely to have lots of guys hitting on them, so they will screen the guys based on their value in the club - its a pretty niche situation. If you have value, and no personality, they are more likely to see what they can get out of you (drinks, table etc). 95% of them are lovely girls with great personalities. You just have to get through the shield they put up to stop drunken slobbering guys trying their best line on them, which is kind of understandable.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 17:43, closed)
Well, yes, to a point
In a club you can't do much more than bellow inanities, so yes - you will get assessed instantly on looks/presentation including confidence and approach. Body language if you like.
The subtlety of approach outlined is for those other meetings when there is an opportunity to impress.
Which is where flirting is more appropriate than wads of cash.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:23, closed)
...but I still stand by the fact you dont have to have wads of cash in a nightclub, the currency there is social value.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:28, closed)
We must move in different circles.
You haven't been to the meat markets I have!
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:34, closed)
Au contraire
I like to think Ive sampled some of the greatest meat markets in London...!

Inferno's in Clapham immediately leaps to mind.... although, I highly doubt I shall attempt a repeat visit...!
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:38, closed)
Then absolutely Au Point, I think.
If it's meat you're after at Inferno just get your wad out .
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:41, closed)
Maybe I should try another language?
Пойдем ебать?

Wollen wir ficken?

Ще се чукаме?

يجب علينا اللعنة؟

हम बकवास दूँ?

Beidh muid fuck?

וועל מיר באַרען?
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:43, closed)
You're a smooth tounged rogue.
Get your coat.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:46, closed)
Someone's been on babelfish

(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 22:57, closed)
Look at my profile
Look at the picture of me,

Then look at the picture of my wife,

Then tell me that blokes can't get women out of their league.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:28, closed)
Well, to be fair
you were playing something in A Minor and had a Foster's in front of you at the time.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:51, closed)
True, Fosters has been known to impress many a woman.
Its all frosty Jacks these days.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 14:54, closed)
Look at you...
....look at meeee.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 15:25, closed)
I just have to say,
that ignoring the fact of your gorgeous wife. Your daughters name is simply beautiful.
(, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 20:37, closed)

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