Gig tickets?
Or arrange an 'experience' day out for her (no, I don't mean make her watch 8hrs of Hendrix DVDs - top tip: they don't like this very much, even if they say they do, they're humouring you), doesn't have to be expensive, just go and visit somewhere like an Owl Sanctuary. Take a picnic hamper, do her up the wrong-un at a dogging hotspot etc etc
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:44, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

An owl sancturary?
That'll work, 'Happy Christmas love, I've got you the Professor Yaffle experience'.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:47, Reply)

*sighs*

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:53, Reply)

I got it

(PsychoChomp, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:53, Reply)

Aha.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:55, Reply)

that's not a bad idea old man
I could take her to see the penguins at the place in Torquay
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:47, Reply)

Experience as gifts are a good idea. But if it's something like the penguin idea you'll have to be inventive as there is nothing actually hand over.

(Cave Duck, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:51, Reply)

I would also get her other stuff

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 9:54, Reply)

Cuh - there you go being all profligate with the household budget.
Are there any Yurt sites near you. You could perhaps combine the amount you were going to spend on each other and have a night in one of those. Although there would be no surprise element.

Or if looking actual gifts then something practical that she needs/wants and something indulgent/luxurious without being really expensive - particularly nice chocolate or body lotion or summat.
(Cave Duck, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 10:04, Reply)

nice idea
but not something she'd be into I think, not at the moment anyway.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 10 Dec 2010, 10:07, Reply)