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(, Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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Actually, I was perfectly fine with turning 40, it was 30 that was a real mindfuck to me. I had moved out of being a kid, no longer a twentysomething just starting to find his way into adulthood, but at that point felt like a complete sham- a supposed adult who still had no idea what he was doing, but was supposed to act like it. That bothered me a lot.
As I approach 50 I feel a fair bit of trepidation, as I don't have a career to speak of or any savings. By now I should be in the prime of my money making years, creating a real niche for myself. Instead I'm trying to figure out how to reinvent myself as there's no call for engineers at this time. Not a good place to be.
I'll trade ya. At least you got to marry Tourettes.
(, Tue 14 Dec 2010, 23:59, Reply)
was the collapse of my first marriage. I ended up thinking that perhaps the previous 13 years had been a total waste of energy and was left feeling a bit displaced.
Turning 40 doesn't bother me much, apart from the odd reflection on how I'm now only four years younger than my mum was when she died. It's quite sobering at times.
But, yeah, on reflection things ain't so bad :)
(, Wed 15 Dec 2010, 0:16, Reply)
At the same time... yeah, life goes on and can be pretty sweet at times.
(, Wed 15 Dec 2010, 1:15, Reply)
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