that's very kind of you to say
But he was the only, erm, 'male lead' I had, so to speak. I really cannot decide if fuckwittery is better than a gapingly empty diary.. :(
(berk, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 21:48, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

you need to build a man trap
not that mine's caught any yet
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 21:56, Reply)

Patience, young lady.
Not seeing anyone for a bit is fine. I have spent many years of my life in relationships I wasn't really happy in; I wasted years treading water and I really wish I hadn't.

There are fucking millions of people out there so you can happily jettison the not-so-perfect ones, never compromise just because there's nothing else going on.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 22:02, Reply)

that's much easier to say when you aren't single

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 22:13, Reply)

I can say in all honesty
I was perfectly happy being single. It helped me to become comfortable with myself and my own company. Maybe it's my age but I am simply not prepared to compromise any more. I've realised that if the person is right then you don't actually need to compromise very much at all.

I spent years gritting my teeth whilst being subjected to soap operas and Big fucking Brother etc, or going on 'sun holidays' that went against everything I stand for, and fuck that shit, never again.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 22:26, Reply)

fair play
i wouldn't put up with that shit
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 22:29, Reply)

in theory, I completely agree with you
But it's very hard to remain objective when my social life is a big fat tumbleweed and I don't meet anyone new ever
(berk, Fri 17 Dec 2010, 22:22, Reply)